Im gona be moving >:'(

[JeSter27]

Well let me give you the backround info first. My mom and dad hav been getting into arguments for about a year lateley. We just moved into a house like 2 years ago. And i was the new kid at school and i was so confused like where to go and stuff. I moved from the city to the country sort a. (still in newyork) And well i just miss my old school so much/friends. If i can just go back there for like 3 weeks i would do it. And now im moving again So last night my mom said "James ur father has a surprise for u"

me:What is it?

Mom: i cant tell u, just be up by 8 o clock in the morning

me: ok

So i got up at 8 o clock in the morning and went to my dads car and we visited the house. And where we are moving is sorta like the city not really but the same kinda peopel, so im happy about that.

So he showed me the house and it was a 5 bedroom house.

Now im not sad about moveing, im just a lil sad/ confused whats gona happen. im wondering if they are getting a devorce or not. because i did see my mom looking at condos/apartments a couple times...

So if they are getting a devorce, im probly gona live with my dad. So we gona get his broken computer and my moms gona get this computer. Or if we are moving together as a family then i problly wont have a computer for like 5 months

Well i just hope this is all a dream and i wake up

[Mobo]

I dont reallyhave much time right now Jester since I have to take one of my daughter out but I can tell you this much..

Your concern is valid, understandable and appreciated. Your only young and cunfusion is part of it all when your trying to sort it all out.

What I can tell you is what i would do and that is to have mom and dad sit down and ask point blank "Whats up". Tell them what you are worried about, tell them your fears and hopefully they will fill in a few blanks and clear the air for you.

[JeSter27]

i asked my brother and he said he doesnt think our parents are getting seperated because My mom seems happy and there are 5 bed rooms. 1 room for everyone in my family (3 bros and me) (mom and dad) And he said we might get 2 dogs But u never know

[Mobo]

Sounds good then Jester..

[JeSter27]

o and i just learned something

if u are ever sad/depressed/angry do as much push ups as u can. It will make u feel better/u can do more that way.

I just did 24 push ups and i only can do like 15-18 when im normal

[JeSter27]

o and play ur favorite song

[Mobo]

Your only young Jester. That doesnt work too well when your older. Bones hurt and the stress only returns

[Pancake]

I'm sure things will work out for you.But as Mobo said tell your Mum and Dad that you are worried and it not fair that you dont know whats going on...Tell them that you are still a part of the family and you are old enough and that you have a right to know what is going on..... I'm sure they are good parents and will always do their best for you.

[rpggamergirl]

Hi Jester,
yeah it's good to play your favorite song when you're feeling sad.
I know it not so nice to be always moving around and leaving all your friends and familiar places like home, but you can make new friends while still trying in contact with your other friends thru messenger or snail mail.

It's also good idea to talk it out with your mom and dad and ask them what really is going on and I'm sure they'll let you know.
Your parents love you and that's a fact. When something is troubling you and you needed answers just ask them. Everything they do and everything they plan for the future will include your happiness and safety.

Divorce happens in many marriages. If that happens to your parents, that doesn't mean that you lost them or lost their love for you. They will still love you and always will for the rest of their lives. Sometimes it's better for the mom and dad to live separately than living together and have all those arguments and all the negative feelings of outburst. By living separate lives, they can become better people and better parents for you if ever they break up.

Just always remember that they both love you and you don't need to worry about them.
Hope things go well your way and you will find your new place will be a home where ever you are.

[JeSter27]

good news, they are not geting devorced. i just saw our new house and he said we moving cause its closer to my moms job and his.


but im still moving so ill be without a computer for like 2 months so like april-june ill be with out a computer